Thank you so much I have just come out of a 7 year abusive relationship where i was not allowed to discuss my feelings or say that something he did or said hurt me. If it upset me i was told it was my own fault he justified swearing and shouting in my face and constantly telling me where to go. If there was something wrong that I didnt like I had to suck it up. This article and your other articles are going to help me through this. Love to you.